我想世界上所有的母亲都是一个模子做出来的。人都有强烈的占有欲; 母亲对儿女的占有欲更其大无比。母亲既期盼儿女快高长大,却又不愿意放手,深怕儿女独立之后会选择自由。我想这是作母亲的矛盾吧!
作为儿女的我们, 却渴望自由。母亲的不愿意放手却让我们感到窒息。
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母亲想重新装修我的房间。 我有意见, 母亲却坚持她自己的想法。我说:"这是我的房间。"
母亲说:"这是我的房子。"
我说:"可是, 这是我的房间。"
母亲说:"你是我所生出来的, 你的一切都属于我。"
我无言以对。
无奈。
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我的同辈正在建设自己的窝巢, 生儿育女。我却是一只被困在笼子里的小鸟。 既使飞得出那鸟笼, 也飞不出这片天空。。。一只渴望爱与自由的小鸟。。。一颗想飞的心。。。
讽刺。
4 comments:
ever tried telling your mum how you feel about what she tells you?
explain to her that if she feels that way, u partly wish she never gave birth to you, and that would only push you further away from her, only make you feel that u wanna get out, get away as far as u can from her
As for me, whenever my mum got angry with me, I'd sing her a song either in Hokkien or Mandarin, which tells her that she loves me 100 times but I love her 1,000 times.
After that mom would smile and stop nagging or scolding!
Soft eggs can break hard rocks :-)
Try it!
guess somebody DOES read my posts... hehehe... thanks 4 dropping by n reading my blog... its nice 2 know someone shares my thoughts n sorrows... thanks ^^
weili: I don't think she can understand. No point wasting my breathe on her.
the oriental express: It does not work on my mom. She is not a hard rock, she is plasticine.
chong chung fui: Thanks for dropping by my blog to say hi. I really like your blog. Very thought-provoking reflections.
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