Friday, June 08, 2007

will past relationships affect your new relationship?

A controversial issue? Well, my personal view is that I do not think past relationships will affect the new relationship. When different people interact, it is like different chemicals reacting to give a totally new and different compound. The chemistry between A and B is independent of the chemistry between A and C or A and D. While A remains a constant, the level of reactivity really depends on the level of reactivity of elements B, C and D.

If B is inert, A remains status quo. But that does not mean A will remain status quo when A reacts with C or D. And many a times, external factors play a part too. Chemicals react faster when there is heat and slower when the temperature is lowered. You basically need to meet the correct person at the correct time. I guess that is probably the difficult part.

2 comments:

mrdes said...

Er, amazing, I actually understand and agreed with that, but I used to think otherwise...gone to think about it...

JerL said...

mrdes: do write when you've got any conclusion to that!